goodbye, cameron

One of my favorite things about the movie "Ferris Bueller's Day Off" is the character, Cameron. When I first saw this movie, I'd never heard of the name (only as a park in Waco). And he was so hilarious, especially when he's sick in bed and they play the song which ends with: "...let my Cameron go."

I've met a few Camerons now, but probably none as sweet as my son's friend. He is a really great kid, in addition to being smart, talkative and helpful. So it was with a bit of sadness today that we said goodbye to Cameron as he and his family make a move to another city.

On the way to pick him up for a last-minute playdate this evening, my son David asked me to play "Somewhere Over the Rainbow," by Israel Kamakawiwo'ole. I don't know why I was even a little surprised to see my very kind-hearted son getting misty-eyed as he asked me in a quiet voice, "Mom, is this the last time I'm going to see Cameron?" I was shocked but managed to tell him that maybe it would be. I added that it was a real treat they were getting to hang out one last time.

So for all the friendships out there, short-lived or long, treasure these. No one ever knows what life will bring, when people will leave or how long it might be before you see someone again. And may we all be the kind of friend who would want to play a sweet little song to capture the mood of one last playdate with a good friend.

Good luck and God bless you and your family, Cameron!